Read The Story For Your Self!

"Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister. I am convinced, being fully persuaded in the Lord Jesus, that nothing is unclean in itself. But if anyone regards something as unclean, then for that person it is unclean."
Romans 14:13-14 NIV

Isn't it funny how people are always giving you the opinion you should have of someone else, and exposing their faults but never ever expose their own!
I say, read the book for yourself. Don't allow other people to tell you their version of the story because the will always leave the juicy plot thickening nuggets out. No, you pick up that novel and flip past the cover and begin to read for yourself, so you don't miss one detail, because that is where all the proof is, in the details, I mean.

In this life to truly know a person's story you must be the same person consistently, around them so that they trust you enough to be transparent. When you really care about others, they know and they will eventually feel comfortable enough to expose their true self. But will you be able to handle it?

Never judge a book by the summary on the back or a person by someone else's opinion but get to know them for yourself and base your own opinion!